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Saturday, October 02, 2010

Facebook - Connecting people, Killing action?

In the current times, it would be difficult to find a person who has internet access but doesn't have a Facebook (FB henceforth in this blog) profile. Lately, FB became the third most populated 'place' in the world after China and India with over 400 million users. [1] But, as I see FB (and many do agree) that it's just a waste of time. Apart from the possibility of connecting with long-lost friends with no possible recovery of contact otherwise, FB just features shitty apps (I too was addicted to Farmville some time back), fraud quizzes (though some people feel happy that FB knows them so well) and who-likes-what, and who-is-friends-with-who, etc etc! So, it gives some losers enough reason to remain glued to their screens 24-7 (been there, done that).

But, does it end here? Is it just a wastage of time? Didn't I ever participate in a discussion as a series of comments on a status update, or share my inner thoughts through my status updates? Though FB gives power to broadcast your thoughts, but generally it's more of a virtual identity which people create so as to gather maximum number of 'likes' or 'comments'. It is not at all uncommon to find people check their FB profiles moments after they connect to internet, and update their status to reflect "What's on your mind?". After all, when was it so easy to express yourself! Too easy to be a cause of inaction in 'real' life? Yes, I'm talking of posts which though invoke opinions when thought about, but the result of the thought process is nothing more than a series of comments. Because it is so much easier to write a few lines on your status update and initiate a chain of comments, it kills the urge to act when and where it really matters. It's not just about cases like Ayodhya verdict or CWG, which aam junta like us have no control over. But, this is relevant to our own local problems (local to IITD), which nobody from outside is going to come and solve for us. Problems as basic as lack of drinking water or poor mess food in hostels. When we all know that raising these issues on Facebook won't make a difference, but troubling the concerned authorities would, yet it feels satisfying to have registered our discontent on some public forum. Such instinct to take the easier way out has extinguished some sparks which had the potential to grow into a large fire if fanned the right way. May be, it is the path and not the destination itself which guides our decisions after all.

5 comments:

  1. Why do people write a diary? To let go of their feelings, to vent it out. But sometimes, you actually wish to have a 'talking diary' so that you can get comments/suggestions on the weirdest of your thoughts and on most absurd situations too. I guess that's what people enjoy doing orkut/fb/twitter ... I do!

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  2. I agree to that. But as I mentioned, if the line of thoughts ends at facebook, rather than doing something 'real', that's a loss.

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  3. well said, vikas. Your post makes me happy about not having an FB account :-)

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  4. @YD: Good point - but one cannot be glued to writing diary hour after hour...day after day...

    @Vikas - Been long since I have been here. Blog looks much cooler now; and this post puts across the points very effectively..

    probably to add to this; I also feel discontented when I see school kids paying so much attention to their e-avatar! Is is really going to be helpful for their future? - I am not sure...

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  5. @Vikas--
    lets take it the other way round :
    1)'At Least' people are socializing.
    2) Shitty apps-just because you are tired of them you cant render them useless...as in other things you are considering others' views (as always) like 'many agree on the point that facebook is crap blah blah blah'... It may be still a way to ease out their frustration or any other feeling for many people.
    3)Fraud quizzes- no body forces you to take them but it does feel good when your friends answer for you..it gives a human touch to the mundane task of mail checking.
    Losers will always find a way to end up being a loser again Duh!!
    4)AFA the thought thing is concerned ..eh! don't you think a thought that may have gone simply un-noticed gathers so much attention through facebook..sometimes there are ideas we couldn't have even imagined comes up in the form of a great 'status message'..great philosophies summed up in a line..such creativity and such a platform dont think can be a waste of time..
    'extinguishes...' again I dont agree..may be it ignites , again losers will be losers..the fire within them can never be rekindled even if a person dies in front of them for a cause but then again there are people :
    lets take it the other way round : 1)'At Least' people are socializing. 2) Shitty apps-just because you are tired of them you cant render them useless...as in other things you are considering others' views (as always) like 'many agree on the point that facebook is crap blah blah blah'... It may be still a way to ease out their frustration or any other feeling for many people. 3)Fraud quizzes- no body forces you to take them but it does feel good when your friends answer for you..it gives a human touch to the mundane task of mail checking. Losers will always find a way to end up being a loser again Duh!! 4)AFA the thought thing is concerned ..eh! don't you think a thought that may have gone simply un-noticed gathers so much attention through facebook..sometimes there are ideas we couldn't have even imagined comes up in the form of a great 'status message'..great philosophies summed up in a line..such creativity and such a platform dont think can be a waste of time.. 'extinguishes...' again I dont agree..may be it ignites , again losers will be losers..the fire within them can never be rekindled even if a person dies in front of them for a cause but then again there are people

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